I have been searching the web for sites that might help Kelly learn her times tables - She is having the hardest time with them (I remember plain as day, I flew along in school until I hit 3rd. grade and we started the times tables. I too had the hardest time remembering them, which caused me so much ridicule from the kids in my class because I couldn't get it!!!!!).
I found some sites about "Visual Spatial Learners", It sounds so much like her:
When she was in public school they classified her as an IEP student, But they couldn't pinpoint her learning disability.
It is something to look into as a new possibly way to make learning a bit easier for her.